Bullying

       

  Say No To Bullying

 Now_a_days'

meaning of life is changing gradually and is gut_wrenching. In this modern era, the rate of evils are increasing drastically.

''Bully''somehow, everyone is well_aware of this word. This is very ordinary term but is very comprehensive in its treatment. From '' O'Stop dude '' are you bullying me? To the spot in life where you be like '' Oh for God sake 'please spare my life' please don't do this,please stop bullying me.The complexity and tone matters. You know what, when amusement gets wrapped into harassment, it changes its meaning. Yeah! I know it's a point to be ponder upon.

Though, these two words have distinctions in their meaning. But in my opinion, '' Bullying''is the combination 0f both amusement and harassment. Do you know''how? No worries! I'll let you know, in these days and age,people are no more human. YES!I know there are some exceptions in it but it's majority what matters.Man of today, inflicts pain on others, just for the the sake of his pleasure.

Meaning of Bully:-

Now you guyz be wondering that what exactly 'bully' or bullying Is! It is very vast in its approach.It covers almost every area of life even it may start from home. Basically, bullying refers to harm, persecute, intimidate and brow_beat someone.The reason may vary. When a person is tormented, anguished and oppressed by anyone, especially vulnerable then he is said to be bullied.

Types of bullying:-

Physical bullying:-

This is a worse kind of a bullying in which physical damaged is caused to the person.It includes,corporal punishments, kicking, hitting 'and pinching  etc etc. It has deletrious effects on a person . 

Verbal bullying:-

It is most common type of bullying.It includes mimic and satirical comments, criticism, teasing and mocking at someone and verbal abuse etc etc.It seems to be harmless, but gradually it starts affecting individual's mental peace. 

Social bullying:-

It somehow, refers to a covert sort of bullying as you may not recognise the person.Its sole aim is to cause harm to somebody's Reputation and to humiliate someone. It may include, rumours, nasty jokes, unkind mimicry and lying etc etc

Cyber bullying:-

Last but not the least, and is the most terrible form of bullying is cyber bullying. Its medium is social media. It includes spreading false news, nasty jokes, sending vulgar sort of pics, emails, messages and videos, hacking their social account, and blackmailing someone etc etc 

Reason behind bullying:-

Bullying is vast in its approach. There can be many reasons of bullying. 

• To harm somebody's reputation 
• To humiliate someone 
• To make him lose his morale
• To oppress his thoughts
• To exploit him for personal gain
• To be identified as a venerable person 
• To execute force and pressure on someone, to make person respect him, vigorously
• People Bully people for the sake of amusement as well
• People Bully people when they get jealous of them 
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Areas of bullying :-

Bullying covers wide range of areas. It is not specific to any single place. It may take place at home, workplace, market and in educational institutions i.e schools, colleges and Universities.School bullying is most common among them.

 

Effects of bullying :-

Bullying has adverse effects on human 'mind', soul and personality. 

Mental illness :-

The major and devastating effect of bullying is mental illness. It destroys mental peace of a person and causes psychological, mental and personality disorders in him like anxiety, shizophrenia and mental trauma etc etc 

Depression :-

It causes depression which is death_dealing disorder.About 50 percent of the population commits suicides due to depression.

Inferiority complex:-

The sense of being tormented and bullied cause inferiority complex to the sufferer. He starts feeling inferior and becomes anti-social. He suffers from anthropophobia

(phobia of people). 

Lack of confidence :-

Both inferiority complex and lack of confidence are interrelated. The sense of inferiority makes him lose his confidence level. He grows up as timid child. He does not even participate in any activity of life. He suppresses his opinions as he feels like that his opinion won't get any regard in this society. He neither struggle for anything nor he seek chances to achieve anything in life. He remains stick to the assumed fact the he is worth_less and he would never get reputable status in the society. 

Physical damage:-

Physical bullying causes physical damage to a sufferer like you will find bruises and wounds on him and sometimes bullying also causes death' though very rare of it happens 'but it can! 

Suicidal attempt:-

He gets sick of this alarming situation and when matter gets out of control. He decides to end his life and ultimately he commits suicides. 

''In America, every year "hundreds of students commit suicides because of constant bullying. 

Laws against bullying :-

• No federal law is passed against bullying, yet

Control:-

• The authorise staff must take strict action against bullying in educational institutions 
• Special arrangements must be made to control bullying in open places
• Cyber bullying can be reported as cyber crimes "and there helpline varies from country to country 

Suggestions:-

• A person must be confident enough so nobody could let him down 
• Keep an active check on your near and dear one's" to get to know about their current situation 
• Parents should talk to their children "and provide them friendly environment" so their children could tell them "what they are going through '' quite efficiently 
• Have a company of people who value you 'and never let you feel unwanted
• Keep yourself calm and cool" and endure this situation courageously
• One should keep on working "diligently to let all those people down' who bullied him' by his success
• If you are bullied at any of your educational institutions or work place" then take that matter in the account of authority

Conclusion :-

We all are going through some phase in our life but we think that we are the only one with most problems.We inflicts pain on others just to satisfy our chaotic souls.Would it make any difference in our life? NO! IT WONT. We are to help each other 'we should think of others first.You know life is already hard and devastating for most of the people' so we must drive a way to ease people's lives rather than hurting and criticising them. We are Humans we have to make this world a better place to live. Can we expect this from animals? 🤔NO! But probably they could do better.

Well'if you are a suffering from constant bullying then keep one thing in mind that you have to live for the people who love, respect and value your presence rather than taking your own life. You have to be strong for them and learn to fight for yourself and rights. Nobody is gonna do that for you. You have to be a survivor in this Chaotic world.

Thank you for reading, comment your opinion and share my perspective. Stay safe!

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Goodbye until we meet again!