Hypocrisy

            Hypocrisy

 We are part of very  mystified society.We can't expect anything here because everyone and everything is soo unpredictable.' We claim to know people at first sight. Yeah! Many of us do. Right? Suppose if somebody tends to be sweet,instantly we will generate a conclusion' O My God, how sweet is he? 'how adorable is he? O "WHAT A PERSONALITY HE GOT! CAN'T I BE LIKE HIM?

Well,these are the things and questions that pop up in our mind. At that very moment, we neglect all of his personality flaws.I must say we are so bad in making a judgement regarding people.We expect so much from them even when they can't give least of it.That's the reason people get hurt by the people. Hypocrisy is something very frequent in its approach as all of us might have some hypocrites in our life. I consider this as a universal fact. But if you don't have then Congratulations you are lucky!

Meaning of hypocrisy :-

If being straight to the content, hypocrisy means ''To be fake'' to conceal your real self and flaws for the sake of having reputable status in the society or in somebody's life.

Hypocrites:-

They are the people who never balance their words and actions like what they say, they never do. The people who have fake identity like they represent themselves as most religious, spiritual, sympathetic, humble and sweet  when they are not.

Origin of hypocrite:-

This word ''hypocrite'' is originated from Greek word '' hypokrite'' which means' '' an actor or a stage player. 

Signs of hypocrites:-

• They never do what they say. 
• They lie
• They cheat 
• They talk bad behind your back
• They make excuses 
• They make rules but never apply to themselves
• They advice people what they can't follow 
• They pose to be the most sincere and trustworthy people. 
• They break your trust
• They never value your existence and sentiments
• Apparently, they seems to agree with everything you say i.e good or bad 

Reasons behind hypocrisy :-

There can be many reasons behind hypocrisy

• Hypocrite might be a goosip_seeker that's why he tends to be sweet with people so that they could trust him' and open their life and heart to him. 

• Hypocrites may work for their family and friends. So they pose themselves to be the most considerate and humble people so that they could keep an eye on the matters of others especially their perspective, ideas and plans etc etc for their family and friends 

• To get prestigious status in the society

• To exploit the person for his interests.

• He might be jealous of the person. That's why he poses to be good and concerning with him so that he could use his weakness against him

• To harm someone's reputation and make a bad image of him.

Tactics of the hypocrites :-

He tends to be to most sincere, sympathetic, humble, loving, concerning person. The Intersting thing about hypocrites are that you can't get the darkest aspects of their personality easily.They trap you by their lovely gestures and sweet tones. They make you feel so relaxed in their company like  as if there is no other substitute of peace.They make you trust them blindly.They make you believe that they will always stay by your side. Then when they get to know everything about you they use that against you. They talk bad behind your back.They mock at you and spread false news about you. Their sole purpose is to not let you live peaceful and make people hate you.

Effects of hypocrisy :-

Oki! SO, Hypocrisy has adverse effects on human mind 'soul and definitely personality

• When you get to know that the person you trusted the most, has deceived you it causes devastating affects on your mind. It may also lead to mental retardation. 
• I always talk about the mind because it's our brain which perceives the stimuli efficiently and it's a heart that can deny the consequences. 
• Hypocrisy can cause depression as well which is considered as the second most life_staking disorder. 
• It can make people insecure about everyone.They don't trust anyone, no matter how sincere the person Is. 
• It makes people anti-social. 
• They start accusing themselves for trusting the wrong people and for everything they are going through. 
• By constantly coming around the fake people, person loses interest in life, he finds no charm in this vibrant world and in this chaos he decides to end his own life. He attempts suicide though its rare but it happens. 

Immoral act:-

Yeah, hypocrisy is a bad and immoral indeed. But calling any person a hypocrite can even make his behaviour altruistic.So,once you get to know about him then just leave him and find the company of those who really care for you and value your existence.

Suggestions :-

• Life is already a tough row to hoe. So, try to understand what people are going through.
• If you can't help them 'then atleast make them believe that better days are yet to come. Be a hope and light for them in this dark world 
• If you are not willing to walk with them then you should not stand with them too. 
• Before doing wrong to anyone think twice that there might be someone who is planning to do the same with you 
• Always remember as you sow, so shall you reap. If you do good, good things will come to you and if you do bad then wait for the karma it will hit you soon
• Don't judge the people at first sight and don't trust them blindly.
• Learn to fight alone and don't give anyone, any chance to let you down
• Be independent and be your own motivation 
• If you find hypocrites in your life, every one of us might have them in our life, so the best thing is to separate your ways from them. 

Conclusion:-

At times, I wonder why we get hurt because of people. Why we want them in our life when they are not willing to stay?and why we cry over the people?why we trust people? Well, we all Acknowledge this fact that life is unpredictable anytime 'anything' can happen. When we can't love ourselves then how can we expect this from People.How can we trust people when even our shadow leaves us in dark. Learn to stand alone. And when we can't keep our secrets to us then how can we expect people to do that for us? O'Point to be ponder upon! OK.Think of it. And to all the hypocrites out there, I want to say that if you can't be healer, then don't be a pain.

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Good bye until we meet again :)