Peace

     Strategies of a         peaceful life

As we all acknowledge the fact that nowadays surviving a day is not an easy task. Because everyone of us holds something inside and goes through lots of things. Today my topic is bit different but certainly it's going to make a big difference in your life. So, I am going to share some strategies for a peaceful or to have a soothing tract of your life. I,myself follow some of them.

          Our soul needs Peace

So, here are some of strategies to have a peaceful life

• Help ever, Hurt never :  This is my one of the favourite quotation. I firmly believe in this and I do follow this.As I always say that everybody is enduring something. So try to understand people and Help them to make their lives better and easier. you know what, to hurt someone' is the easiest thing one can do but to help someone requires a lot of courage and definitely heart as big as elephant. (Sorry for cold humour).

• Silence : So am going to relate this point with the first one. If you get hurt by the people, and you think of a revenge. Yeah, I know it's natural. You try to hurt them back. You know what Hurting back is not always a reply and your silence is not always your weakness. So, instead of hurting back, think of the reasons why you got hurt and rack your brain to find out that either you have been on fault or not. We can't clap with a single hand. :) If not, means if you are innocent then your silence is the best reply. If a matter is in a lighter mode then silence is enough. your silence will make  person realise that he or she doesn't have much importance in your lives. And we don't care what all he or she keeps on doing to hurt and annoy us. Your silence means that You are strong enough and nobody could ever dare to destroy your peace.

• Stand for yourself: If somebody is in a constant struggle to harm your self respect then you must stand for yourself and speak for yourself. But still if it won't make any difference then always remember that, the people who trust you and love you will stay and stand with you at your worse and the people who are a mask_holder, their mask will definitely get slipped. And then you will be grateful for this tragedy because at that very moment you will come to see the true colors of the people.

• Less Interaction: There is no need to interact with everyone around. I always say that more you interact, the more you suffer. So, try to figure out few pure and sincere souls in this mass of world. And grow your relation with them. 

• Less Importance: People are critics and everyone of us have some critics in our lives. They are going to criticise us, no matter what so ever we do (Either positive or negative). So, give less importance to people. Don't let them make you feel like a weird creature. Simple thing is to apart your ways from them. And do whatever you want to do. People gonna speak anyway. But make sure that what you do is acceptable and is according to the morals of your religion or a family.
• Less Interest: Don't be a gossip_seeker. Learn to take less or no interest in people's personal affairs. Keep yourself away from somebody personal life when somebody doesn't want you to be a part of it. But still if you feel like that a person needs your help or advice or you then for sure provide them with that helping hand as it could make a big difference in their lives.

• No expectations : Be a pure soul in this impure world. if you are good with someone, helping someone or what so ever you are doing for someone. Do that with a pure heart but don't expect anything in return because expectations hurt. But Your lord is going to pay you for your services soon.

• Pray : Always pray for the people whom you love, for the people who hurt you and for everyone around. I believe that pray is the most effective thing. So Pray for everyone because probably you never know the reason somebody has hurt you. He could be helpless or what he did was not intentionally and there Could be so many genuine reasons. So, Always pray.

• Trust : No one is as much sincere as you are with people or as you expect people to be. So don't trust anybody. It better to not but if you have a loyal and trustworthy people in your life then trust them and share your problems with them. but again it's better not to because People get changed.

• Lord : Somehow, all of us believe on the creator of universe. but our beliefs may vary. so whatever your belief is, share your problem with your God, seek help from him and trust his plans and keep patience. So, he will definitely help you and give a reward for your patience.

• Be Kind: Be a kind, gentle and loving Soul. Help people, understand them and try to solve their problems. I know there might be  no gain for you but all you get will be spiritual peace and satisfaction.

• Give best: Give best in whatever you do. If you encounter failure then don't be afraid of that and you know failure is the first stair of achievement. So, try to find your mistake and be a master of the thing you do. Don't lose your morale. Try again with great spirit and confidence. Learn more and then definitely you will achieve your target goal. 

• Please: Don't try to please people. If you want to do something then do this. what's this?  Be a better version of yourself. Enhance your value. Be a person everybody wants to be with other than being a person who is constantly chasing people. It's good to get Inspired but try to be an Inspiration for the people.

• Positive: Stay positive and spread positivity and love. Try to find positivity in every negative thing as well. As I believe that nobody is bad at heart and nothing is useless. So, have a eye and heart that perceive positivity

• No grudge : Don't keep grudge. Because it's going to frustrate you more and its going to make you feel depressed. So stay cool and leave the rest on your lord. He is Just. Say no to enmity. 

• Jealousy : Don't get jealous of people infact praise and appreciate everyone around. Nobody is as happy as you see on social media and whatever. Make a pray that May God bless them with more and bless you as well.

• Blessings : Count your blessings and ignore your failure.And stop broadcasting your problems. Infact, make your weakness your strongest point. 

• Contented : Stay contented with whatever you have. If you have less then think of the people who have a desire of living your life.

• Over-thinking : Don't over think as what's over its over. Nothing is going to change that and what is supposed to be happen will happen. Nothing can change that too.So,let it be.

• Justification : Stop justifying yourself as if you are right then there is no need to justify. And always remember that people are going to listen what they want to not what you want them to.

• Forgive: I know to forget something is the hardest thing but always forgive people. You know, to seek forgiveness requires so much courage and If somebody is tending apology and is feel guilty for their doings then please forgive them. And if you want to continue with them then never recall the past to make him feel embarrassed as it would hurt him or her too. So be careful

• Personal gain:Never exploit people for your personal gain. If you do so then karma will hit you soon and then you will be exploited by your near and dear one's. As you sow, so shall you reap.

• Stay focused: If you are determined to do and achieve something then stay focused and work harder harder and harder. No matter what people say, Give your best and have the best. 

• Love :Love is not always a desire to have somebody in your life infact it is to be happy in the happiness of your love. So,if you love someone then give your full and stay loyal to them. And in the end I just want to say that try to make your space rather than taking somebody's place.

I just want to say that if you don't have anything to live for yourself then live for others. if people expect something from you then never break their trust. 

In the world full of pain be a pain killer (Rida" writes) 

Now, you might be wondering that  why I emphasised much on pray and Lord because in the end they gonna help you more than anybody else.

So, that's why I have firm faith on them. 

Thank you for reading. Comment your opinion and share my perspective. Stay safe. 

Your suggestions will be highly honoured.

Goodbye! until we meet again